Signs Your Summer Fling Is Over
27 Jul For a truly harmless and lighthearted summer fling, your dude should be in town only for the summer — or else you should be temporarily in his neck of the woods , and leaving in September. Why? If you're both going into it knowing it will have to end when the season does, there's less of a chance anyone. 20 Jul Your summer romance might have started as a fling, but it doesn't have to stay that way. 1 Jun Ah, the infamous summer fling. It's something we've all lusted after at one time or another. After all, what's better than a hot romance in the hot weather with a hot guy? Unlike in the fall and winter - when it seems like everyone is pairing up ( hello, cuffing season) just to have someone to snuggle with over the.
Easier said than done, we know. Here, seven tips from Ward for finding a summer fling. The first four will help you get in front of new guys — and the last three will ensure that you reel one in. It sounds obvious, but that's where the men are: So stop worrying about your hair turning frizztastic and get your butt outdoors.
Guys flock outside in the summer to enjoy the sun, but also to check out women wearing skimpy clothes, admits Ward. Which brings us to our next point Okay, that sounds a bit extreme, but basically: If you're going to flaunt it, now's the time — but don't be skanky.
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So if you're at the pool, you better be wearing a sexy bikini A short, flirty summer dress is great, but super-short — and — low-cut screams desperate. Men expect to see some skin during the summer, so show it off a little if you want their attention. If you're stuck in the same social circle — which means you've probably already met many of the available male friends-of-friends — then grab a girlfriend and head to another town for some man-hunting, Ward suggests.
Make sure your friend is willing to play wingwoman if need be, and try hitting up a lake or park where a lot of people will be hanging out. Another good thing about separating yourself from the pack? You're less likely to wind up dating a guy who one of your friends has already, uh, flung-around with.
How to Find Your Summer Fling
If you've got your eye on more than one guy at a summer shindig, then try not to be touchy-feely with any one dude. If you do, you may hurt your chances of hitting it off with another potential guy.
Men will think you're insincere — or desperate!
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If you've just started chatting up a guy, the last thing he wants to hear about is where you bought your dress or why your best friend is mad at you.
You're sipping a couple of sweating beers during summer — not braiding each other's hair at a sleepover. Do not dig or pry!
The guy needs to feel like you're casually getting to know him, not that you're sizing him up for a relationship. Ahem, even if you totally are.
How to Have a Summer Romance
When you first meet a guy you're interested in, you have to be more direct than usual. After all, the summer is only about three months long and who has time for playing the game of wait-to-see-if-someone-makes-a-move?
So if you're talking to a potential catch and want to make sure he doesn't get away, Ward suggests putting yourself out there in a cheeky way.
How to Find the Perfect Summer Fling
I can't wait for you to take me to dinner! Another tip to fan the spark with a brand-new guy: Socialize with him in person The more face time you have with someone, the more emotional currency you both have in the budding relationship. By weaning yourself off all the texting, tweeting, and Facebooking, you let the guy have the opportunity to actually miss you. Type keyword s to search. This Kindergartener Just Reinvented the Valentine.
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